Bdsm collaring ceremony

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I posted a few weeks ago about the ceremony that my esclave and I went through that formally acknowledged our relationship. In the lifestyle we call this a collaring ceremony. The collar is a physical representation of the spiritual bond between a Dominant and his submissive. A collaring ceremony is akin to a wedding in the non-kink world, and is where a Dominant claims the submissive partner and presents the collar.

Collars take many forms. They may be physical or only symbolic. A leather collar is just as good as one crafted from the finest precious metals. What is important is the relationship that they symbolize. A Dominant commits to protect, nurture and, perhaps most importantly from a lifestyle perspective, control their partner in a considered, respectful manner.

While romantic love is often found in the relationship, it is not a requirement to be collared. Love, though, is a bdsm collaring ceremony I believe, for a healthy relationship to develop. Typically, a Dominant will pick the collar out for her submissive. She may involve him in the process, but normally the decision is all hers.

A physical collar may be a simple chain with a padlock, a dog collar bought at the local pet store, or even a piece of costume jewelry bought at the mall. Depending on the relationship, and their needs, a collar may lock, but it is almost equally likely that it will not. In my case, I commissioned a collar from a website BondageCollars. Then we come to the Collaring Ceremony. The ceremony may be intimate, just between the Master and slave involved, or it may be a large event with friends and family invited.

If they are bdsm collaring ceremony an online only relationship, it may be a simple phone call, or online chat where descriptive chat is typed out. In any event, no matter where the event is held, or who attends, it should be seen as a somber event with bit of ificance in our lifestyle, as a wedding is in the vanilla world.

A ceremony can be lead by a third party, as many I have attended have been. A community leader or respected friends conducts the ceremony and requests statements from both parties stating their commitments. In the case of my ceremonyI lead the ceremony, and had my esclave bdsm collaring ceremony her own statements.

In both cases, the normal course of events is to get those who are present to pledge their support of their relationship and to support the couple in the future. I can state from witnessing several and having my own, that a collaring is often a moving experience and can bring many there to tears. I hope that you find these links to Collaring ceremonies useful, and I hope that you find your own way to make yours meaningful.

Ceremony of the Roses. Gorean Ceremony. Sample Collaring Ceremony. View more posts. I received some great information from this. I was wondering do you know or have you ever done an online collaring ceremony. This will be my first one to do and I am not sure how to do it properly…. Thank You! Please help me with in formation that could help me learn to be a quality loving Dom. I am fairly new to all of this my master wants my daughter to place the collar on me. Please help me to know what this would mean. Thank you. How old is your daughter? Is she kink aware?

Kink friendly? I had some kink friendly vanilla folks at my collaring. And I was at one where the daughter was a part of the ceremony. We want to have a training collaring ceremony but we would like to have other BDSM member there. Typcially it is done by an elder in the local community. Master or slave does not matter. You might just consider having a ceremony, perform the collaring yourself with words that have meaning before some people who mean something to you.

The following is some excerpts from what I learned and what my own collaring contained. If this dominant is the trainer, mentor or protector of this submissive, they will be required to release the submissive from their care at the beginning of the ceremony. The Submissive. This training collar will be removed during the beginning of the ceremony. If the female has long hair it should be worn off the neck and pinned securely to her head.

Bdsm collaring ceremony

Often it is braided into a plait and twisted at the back of the head. Small flowers may be worked into the hair if they are not overwhelming and are firmly secured. The Dominant. Most often the dominant will be seen dressed as a country gentleman or lady of breeding and position.

Bdsm collaring ceremony

Just keep in mind this is a very serious ceremony and good judgment should prevail when choosing the look for their own special day. I have seen a female submissive carry a single flower that she offers to the dominant, who then places it in his lapel. A male submissive may carry a small bouquet of flowers to present his soon-to-be Mistress as a gesture of his affection. These copies are to be uned and may be held by one of their attendants until they reach the part of the ceremony where bdsm collaring ceremony are needed.

Once everyone is seated a bell is rung to al the beginning of the ceremony. If the submissive was under the care of another dominant, such as a protector, trainer or mentor, they give their testimony about the character of their charge and officially release the sub from their care and protection. The submissive is then attended to by her sisters and left to stand alone on to the left of the front area. A second bell sounds and the dominant with their attendants moves to the front of the room to the right.

Any other submissives that are collared by this dominant are to be in attendance and seated near the front of the room on the right side, and remain silent in a respectful position. After the testimony is given, the submissive, with leash in hand, walks toward the dominant and attendants. It is my desire to belong to you and to follow you where ever you choose to take me. You will belong to me from this day on and I will do all within my power to protect bdsm collaring ceremony as you me on my journey. The submissive then kneels, head held straight but eyes looking to the floor.

I will wear it proudly for all of my days, Sir. This is the first time the dominant has been called Master or Mistress and is a very moving moment in the ceremony. They both read for a few moments and both copies, along with a witness for both. They ify their agreement on the stipulations of the contract by verbally stating their acceptance.

I will honor your feelings and needs. I will always put your best interests foremost in my dominance over you. You belong to me, thus you are now a part of my body and soul. Your happiness, health and well-being are in my care and I will thoughtfully tend to them because you are a part of me and my destiny. I will honor and love you as I serve you to the best of my ability.

Bdsm collaring ceremony

I will open my heart, body and mind to your will, trusting that you have my best interests in your bdsm collaring ceremony. My submission to you will be a gift freely given and shall never become a bdsm collaring ceremony that I must bear. I am now a part of you and will respect you and your dominance over me as our lives and destinies have become one. The bells are sounded several times to announce the newly formed bond.

The couple embraces and shows s of their affection for each other. A token gift may be exchanged at this time. If the dominant had other submissives who are collared by them this is the time their new sister or brother is introduced as part of the family. We see too much of that kind of thing online everyday and I hope that this will give you something to consider before you jump into one just because it seems like the thing to do.

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Like this: Like Loading Pingback: Collaring Ceremonies « Divine Dominance. Declaring his ownership? That is what I did. Pingback: Sex After Marriage. Dress and Appearance The Submissive. The Beginning of the Ceremony Once everyone is seated a bell is rung to al the beginning of the ceremony.

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Collaring Ceremonies