Bdsm hard limits

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Curious what the AskMeAnything is? Check out the official AMA on my site over here. What are they and why do I need them? What are limits?

Bdsm hard limits

And they should be an actual list. So, avoid that.

Bdsm hard limits

Write these down as you think of them. Keep it updated and fresh. What are soft limits? What are hard limits? These are the hell-nos. The fuck-off-and-die-with-that-idea limits. Everyone has these, because these are the over-the-line things that you refuse to participate in.

No matter what, a hard limit should never even be attempted in a session with a good partner. Hard limits are off-limits. Hard limits are no joke, and both subs and Doms get limits. If they do it, you need to decide if you feel safe enough to continue in that relationship. Why do I need this and what do I do with it? Pop it into a folder in yoursave it in a note on your phone, but keep it accessible.

You should also ask about their limits. When you first start out, you might have a soft limits list a mile long, and a hard limits list just as long — and this is okay. What all can be on a limits list? Is it just implements? Certain acts? So… this is pretty much all I have to say on limits, but I wanted to take one more chance to say just how fucking important they bdsm hard limits.

This is me being a protective, crazy, mama bear, but I adore you lovelies and I never want anyone to take advantage of you, whether they know they are or not. As always, my inbox is always open for more questions. If you have questions about my limits, or your own limits, please ask.

PS — Send me more questions! Scat play is anything to do with fecal matter. And clean movement is exactly what it sounds like! If anything is done with anal, go wash off, then come back and play. Was in bdsm hard limits dynamic, that just ended today permanently. My so called sub, was living on fb 18 hours a day. Gaining weight, neglecting her health, fast food, just a social media zombie.

I recognized it as a problem and imemented rules and tasks, in order to give her balance and structure, which were agreed upon and accepted. She had gone to a friend she trusted and completely emasculated me, betrayed my trust. I chose to forgive, gave her a rough punishment, which she never finished. Long story short. She asked me to remove her collar, I obliged. Then denounced me as her Dom, yet still expected full support and service, if ya know what i mean? We decide to try to reunite, now all of a sudden facebook is a hard limit.

What in the fuck makes her think facebook limits are even legit limits? Am I wrong here or is that just a bratty bogus ass move? You deserve to be happy in a relationship just like she does! Sorry for the delayed reply! Say your Dom has a hard limit and you have a play partner who does not have a limit on a certain subject and you tell your Dom You prefer to play with this person over them due to that fact on the bdsm hard limits limit, is that a form of manipulation, would either you or your Dom feel hurt in any way if either of you said that due to a hard or soft limit?

Hey lovely! Now, on playing with other people, I think that the benefit of a successful open relationship is that we CAN find different things we want with different partners. So my answer is yesthat if I found a limit with my Dom I might look for it in someone else. However, my Dom did the same thing when we were together, and it was okay because we had discussed it and were on the same.

Hello, If someone whether the Dom or the Sub has a hard limit that is a must limit for the other person, how would you suggest that situation should be handled? Anyone in the BDSM community knows how important it is to respect limits, and if that limit is a non-negotiable for the other person then the only responsible thing to do is separate and go on to find people who are a good fit.

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Bdsm hard limits

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Bdsm hard limits

Get out. Report them to someone, if not the police.

Bdsm hard limits

This is a terrible, gigantic red flag, and behavior like that will most likely only get worse. For real.

Bdsm hard limits

Alright, back to the fun stuff. No watersports. No age play. Hard Limits Clean movement from anal to anything else. No scat play. No blood play. No public activities. Pre-determined safe word. Nonverbal is three snaps or three hard taps. Laurel Lasky on October 12, at pm.

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Bdsm hard limits

Does Clean movement mean what I think it means? Nick on August 8, at pm. Ev on November 1, at pm. Priya on May 18, at am. Thanks Reply. Michelle Cavender on January 5, at pm. Great post. Thanks for the information Reply. I hope it helped! Back to Blog. Search for:. Ask Me Anything: What is subspace like? Ask Me Anything: Being submissive in public without blowing your cover! Ask Me Anything: What's all this about soft limits and hard limits?

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Bdsm hard limits

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